How to move on from a Failed Relationship -
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How to move on from a Failed Relationship

When a relationship is over, let go and move on in a healthy way to attract the right one for you.

"Have faith that true love is meant to be and one day love will come shining through. No matter how sad your heart is, the love that you wish for will come true...if you believe."

How To Use Your Breakup To Create The Love You Desire

When a relationship is over, it's time to let go. Holding on to a past love clutters up your heart and mind. Letting go opens up the space and possibilities to attract the partner of your dreams. Try these things to stop dwelling on the relationship you had with your ex.

14 things to stop doing now:

Listening to love songs that remind you of him
Going to places where you spent time together
Thinking about the good times you had together
Communicating with him (erase his phone number, email address, texts, etc.)
Being friends with benefits or being the other woman
Wishing and hoping that he'll come back to you
Being in denial that it's over
Looking at his pictures, cards, love letters and his Facebook page
Staying in contact with his friends and family
Talking continuously about him with your friends, family and anyone who will listen

Trying to run into him in bars and nightclubs

Looking for him on online dating sites

Trying to make him jealous by flirting with or connecting with his male friends

Letting yourself get rundown (i.e. over-eating, not exercising, etc.)
In addition to stopping the above things, the following practices will help you transition and move forward with more ease and grace. Ending relationships Gracefully

14 things to start doing now:

Find your happiness from within
Be grateful for the wonderful things in your life
Find your passions and focus on them
Get healthy from the inside out
Focus on the present moment and know that all is well
Connect and spend time with your family and friends
Enjoy hobbies and activities that you've been meaning to do
Do things to refresh, renew and soothe your soul
Exercise and workout
Listen to uplifting music
Keep a journal
Read positive books
Create a bucket list and start doing things on your list
Apply lessons (what you've learned) from your past relationships to
create your ideal love life
Be patient and gentle with yourself during this time. It takes courage to move forward and becomes easier once you start. Try a few of the stops and starts. As you become comfortable with them, take on additional ones

  • Joy - This might sound absurd but overthinking about the person, the relation, the good and bad times spent together, crying your heart short, the thorough analysis, emotional pouring and of course doing things that satisfy you and fill you with happiness within might help in overcoming the failed relationship and moving forward. Trust me, it has worked for me at least :)